Restart. Refocus and Reset as many times as you need to!
Sometimes in life, you have to reset things if they're not functioning properly. It's acceptable to make adjustments, readjust, refocus, reschedule, or re-do anything in order to improve things, feel better, and live better. If you find yourself losing focus, find a quiet place to escape and then come back to it. Press the reset button. If you need to repeatedly restart or refocus in order to discover your purpose in life or your calling, then do so. You don't need to solve every problem now, tomorrow, or even next month. Take your time, but make a move. We Are Allowed to Reset Ourselves In this Dynamic World ~ (Source: Google Images) All the stuff that could push you closer to your goals or the life you are after , it's fine if you don't know what that is. Never give up hope and have faith that you will one day find your "happily-ever-after." Go over the final line. As often as is necessary. Keep that in mind, don't worry about how many opportunities other people believe you should have, stay in your lane, and take the action that will offer you the best chance of succeeding. There will be moments when we need to adjust to things, start over, start again, and just take a few days off to clear our heads because life is full of ups and downs. We are permitted to take days off to rejuvenate our bodies, minds, and souls. People may try to make you feel bad about being selfish or criticize you for prioritizing your own needs, but it's okay to prioritize your own needs and well-being. After all, if we don't take care of ourselves, we won't be of any service to anybody else. With us, it begins and ends. Get your life in order, focus on your mental health, and reach a point where waking up is not something you fear but rather something that motivates you to get out of bed and carry out the task at hand. It's a lifelong endeavor rather than a day-long one, and with that comes both the good and the terrible as well as the occasionally ugly. Things happen that we can never truly prepare for, but we can be in a position where we can deal with them coolly and collectedly knowing that these storms pass. Prioritizing Yourself isn't Selfish ~ (Source: Google Images) When it comes to interpersonal connections, the consensus in the modern world is that we should always be "on." If perfected depictions of friendship in the media and other sources are to be believed, then being a good friend is being there for the ones you cherish at all times. However, the harsh reality is that this isn't always feasible and may not always be in our best interests. People talk a lot about "boundaries" and how important it is for our mental health to establish and maintain appropriate ones. You are not necessarily guilty of a decision just because you feel bad about it. Sometimes putting your needs ahead of those of others is the healthiest course of action! What Better You Can Do? ~ Set Revived and Constructive Intentions: (Source: Google Images) Setting intentions is more than just a self-help trend—it's a transformative practice that influences how we navigate our daily lives. It's about cultivating a mindset that guides our actions, emotions, and thoughts toward a desired way of being. Unlike goals—which are often specific and target-driven—intentions are rooted in our deepest desires and values, shaping the quality of our experiences rather than just the outcomes. Through intention setting, we can identify what truly matters to us and make that the center of our daily actions and decisions. Always remember that intention can be super dynamic. As you evolve, so do your intentions. They can be revised and refined to reflect your own life story, adapting to your current state of being and aspirations. This flexibility is what makes intention setting such a powerful tool for personal development and self-awareness. “There are some things one can only achieve by a deliberate leap in the opposite direction.” —Franz Kafkz